Are You My Best Friend or Lover?

I am not sure about my relationship status anymore? Updating my Facebook relationship status would be futile at the moment. I have just had coffee with a man I have known for years. We have this kind of funny off and on relationship. Actually, I am not sure that we could even live without each other. A few of the girls at London escorts have met this man, and they think that we are made for each other. They say that I am putting obstacles in my own way, and I should really let this man into my life fully, and leave charlotte London escorts to be with him.

Well, that is one of the problems when it comes to our relationship. He is sort of setting terms and conditions. One of his conditions is that I leave London escorts. Looking at it from my point of view, the problem is that I have been with London escorts for a long time. I am not sure that I would like to leave, and anyway, what would I do for a living if I left London escorts? It would be a major step to take for me and I am not sure that I am ready.The other thing is that he is older than me. As long as our relationship stays casual I don’t feel I have to worry about that, but if we hook up full-time, I do feel that I would have to worry about that. I do date some guys at London escorts who are older than I am, but this guy is 15 years older than I am.

Once again, many of my London escorts think it is not such a big deal, but I do worry about the age difference in between us.On the upside, we do have a lot of things in common. I love to spend time with him because we always have something to talk about. Since I have been with London escorts I have had a couple of younger guys who I have enjoyed hooking up with. It has been okay. The sex has been great but that is all.

We have not really had a lot to talk about after we have had some fun in between sheets. This guy is different, he is a very sensual lover and we never run out of things to talk about. It kind of feels good to be around him. I don’t know what to do.

The biggest obstacle is the fact that he wants me to leave London escorts. I know that he could afford to look after me, but would I lose my independence? He keeps reassuring that it would not happen but I am not so sure. I may even feel obliged to follow his lead and we may get stuck doing the things which he likes. Would I lose interest in him as he gets older? I don’t know, and that is what it comes down to in the end. I really can’t see the future, but like I have always said, who can see the future. But I would hate to lose this man as a friend.